Is It You… or Is It the Relationship?
Uncover the truth behind why love feels so hard
You’ve tried everything.
Therapy. Self-help books. Communicating “better.”
You’ve worked on yourself again and again.
So why does love still feel like walking on eggshells?
If you’ve ever wondered:
“Maybe I’m the problem…”
This quiz is for you.
The truth?
You might be over-functioning to survive a dynamic that isn’t safe, mutual, or supportive.
This quiz will help you gently explore what’s actually going on—so you can stop second-guessing yourself and start getting clarity.
Let’s find out.
✨ Results
Mostly YES?
You may be over-functioning to survive a relationship that’s not meeting your emotional needs.
That doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong—it means your nervous system has learned to adapt by doing more to earn love.
But real love doesn’t require you to abandon yourself to keep it.
You're not too much. You're not too needy.
You may be in a pattern in which you think you need to perform to be worthy of love and attention.
This kind of pattern often leaves you doubting yourself, obsessing about what you or he said, tip-toeing so as not to make anyone upset and generally overfunctioning while forgetting what you love, what your passions are.
Sound familiar?
What to Do Next
💛 Healing starts with clarity. The more you understand your patterns, the more empowered you become.
Want to explore how to be deeply loved and just plain feel better?
Let’s talk.
👉 Book your free Relationship Clarity Call
In this no-pressure session, we’ll explore what’s going on beneath the surface—so you can stop guessing and start healing.